They won’t get you

Don’t expect them to.

They might never understand you. It doesn’t mean they don’t love you.

We assume that those closest to us have to get us always, with certainly and before anyone else. Just because we know them the longest, doesn’t guarantee the stronger connection.

We’re here because of them, thankfully to them and all that they did before us. But we’re not them and times aren’t like theirs. We’re here to do our part for those that will come after.

You’re not here to walk on their path repeating their steps. You’re here to leave your own marks, discover your own self, participate for the highest good in your unique, authentic way.

Be grateful for what you have, but don’t let their limits based on the past mould your future.

We’re all gonna die. Might as well live the way we feel drawn to.

No body to blame

How would we look like if we don’t have bodies?

Would we still be so harsh and critical to our appearance?

Would we still find something we can always blame?

Humans an average of 73 years. Less than a century we have to live in a body that is given to us, but living with us and our constant changes. A body that no matter what it happens, tries to cooperate and compensate, regenerate and get back to the best function it can. An intelligence that is guiding us and helping us taste life.

Yes we always find something we’re not happy about it. Until it’s too late. Or it fails.

What if we accept it more for what it is, for how it is, for what is giving us?

What if we act like we there is no body to blame?

It’s not personal, it’s business

They don’t think about what you deeply care about. And that’s okay.

It’s your job and life journey to become the person you feel inside, doing, gaining and experiencing what you personally want.

Overachievers are focused on hustling and proving others wrong. Or aiming for certain status in order to be accepted.

It’s all in your head. Their heads are full of themselves. Be who you wanna be, do what you wanna do. Be kind on then say but don’t forget yourself.

Only You can give Yourself what you truly seek. A lot of times this is the exact opposite of anything material.

Your first priority

They say, how you do one thing is how you do everything. So how do you do yourself?

Do you speak, treat and think of yourself the same way you do to others? Or are you putting them before and above yourself? Are their needs more valuable for you to fulfil than your own? Why?

Talking, treating and carrying yourself in the best way you can and believe one is deserving of, is not a selfish act. In fact the contrary.

The example you give others by the way you treat yourself is crucial for your wellbeing and all that you receive. It comes from us first - from the inner believe, through the outer expression to the way others are reacting back to us.

Your first priority is yourself.

Then rest follows with ease.

You know it, follow it

That inner knowing, the feeling of excitement when you think about it. You know it’s for you. You know it’s coming if you let it. So why are you so afraid?

There’s some true romanticism regarding dreams. It’s like in a way they are more special if they remain dreams. Something we wish for, but not necessarily work on achieving it. Why? - It’s easier to dream, to wish, to long for a goal, a place, an occupation that to make a plan and just jump into the unknown, learning on the way how to make it happen.

Dreams are pretty. Putting the work into them not always. Takes more than imagination to go for your dreams and make them happen. It require times of unpretty moments, doubts and struggles. Times when you would wonder “Is this really what I want?”

Achieving your dreams is not a pink dream, but rather a ix of nightmares and sleepless nights. Yes these exact ingredients are what make them worth following.

Because along the way you will find out how pretty this unpretty journey is. How worthy are all the struggles. And how important it is to follow your dreams just because if you don’t, you’ll never know what it would have been.

Go for it.